Sunday, June 8, 2008

The One With the Perfect Husband

Ah, my husband is cheesy. Or to use his word, "chessy". So we've been under a lot of stress lately. Finances have been tight, to put it lightly, and we have been having to make some serious sacrifices and life decisions. We're both losing sleep and rarely seeing each other and on edge a lot of the time and just trying to get by. Luckily, we have amazing family and friends for support and assistance during this weird period in our lives. Anyway, we haven't been on a date in well over a month, maybe two. We haven't had much alone time. By the time we're both home and kids are in bed we're either zoned out or asleep. So needless to say, we've been missing each other.

So today after church while Jack napped and Payson played quietly with her aunts I crashed on the floor for two and a half hours. You don't even know how good it felt to just sleep! Then tonight after the kids were in bed and everything was cleaned up for the night Jason said he had something to show me downstairs. In the computer room he handed me this note.



How corny is he? In case you can't read it, I was instructed to go the the following blog:

http://theonewiththeperfectwife.blogspot.com/

Yesterday he was asking me how I actually got music onto the blog. He asked how I put it in different places and what if I wanted to put it in a specific post. He sounded so casually curious and I fell for it. This is an amazing feat because Jason can NEVER surprise me! I always know when something's up and I typically know every gift and whatever before he gets to give it. I'm obnoxious that way. But this was such a surprise! So he put this together yesterday while I was running errands and finished today while I was napping.

You should all be jealous. I know that it is corny and silly and that his grammar and punctuation are HORRENDOUS! He even made up a few words, like "mishalfs"? What in the world?! I laughed out loud. He isn't the most eloquent, the most wealthy, or even the most attractive man in the world (even though in my eyes there is NO ONE sexier!). But I'd bet my life on the fact that no one in this world is loved as selflessly and as unconditionally as I am by my wonderful husband.

And those times he refers to as "not being there for me", etc. Well, that would be my girly moments. Like the other day when the kids were in bed and he was running to the grocery store and didn't ask if I wanted to go with him. I flipped out on him and accused him of not wanting to spend time with me. It was a five minute run to the grocery store. He just didn't think I would care. So I'm just a little crazy. And he made it up with a 30 minute full body massage with lotions and everything. And it would have been longer but I was snoring. There was no point in continuing.


Anyway, be sad that you didn't find him first. And I'll just keep reminding myself how lucky I am that I did!

14 comments:

Brianne said...

How cute is he!!! What a sweet husband!

Scottie & Kimber said...

Ah cute!!! what a sweet husband you have....his grammer is seriously as bad as Scotts! haha, go figure!

Hailey said...

Oh my word how freaking cute is that?! That's so sweet! And gross! Ha ha ha.

tomlinson1 said...
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Hailey said...

I'm so totally stupid and sent you a comment under another email... but this is what it said.

PS- I'm so jealous of your new picture. You should become a professional graphic designer.

Hailey said...

I totally agree. Will you please draw me one? I will pay top dollar.

Kristin said...

You are So cute, I think we are more alike than i thought :)
I also "freakout" when jared goes outside with the boys aka not spending time with me.. i am crazy also!
Very cute of him.

SlingShotGirl and Addicted Fisherman said...

Oh my gosh Mckenna! So cute! He is so stinkin thoughtful. I think guys like him come around once every 5 years (to be fair to Jared ;) ) How awesome. Your new main photo is so fun!

Jobi Niu said...

That is so sweet of Jason! McKenna you guys are so cute together! THanks for letting us come over the other day and swim.. Your parents yard is AMAZING! It was good to see Payson and Jack, they're too cute! I wish I didn't live an hour away (pretty much the east mountain to the west mountain) and that gas is a TRILLION dollars! I would seriously be over there EVERY day swimmin with ya!

Lali Johnson said...

So cute, you guys are perfect for each other!

The Tarin Family said...

Awww! That's so sweet! What a cute husband!

Lauren and Tyson Fiala said...

That was really sweet! Way to go Jason! When it comes to the mushy love stuff, I say the cheesier the better!!!

Lali Johnson said...

Sorry it took so long to respond; to vote you actually have to type in her name, Johnson 1.

Tabitha said...

Okay..so..um..yeah...you have the cutest husband!!! :) Girl, you are amazing, and I'm sooo glad that he takes the cutest, cheesiest, adorable, loving ways to show you. :)....

How are yoU? I will stalk you too now that I know you have a blog!!! :) My secret was that I'm getting married! :) I think I told you that though! :)...:) Anyway, Look forward to seeing more blogs. Have a great day girl.. you deserve it.

~Tabitha